For some people, time passes relentlessly slow. For others, it passes very fast. The hours fly, and with them each second, a few days, weeks and even months. And it is then, when it passes twelve more, when we reset the calendar again we count as a new cycle starts and we expect that the things change. Because everybody always finds something at the end of the year that we would like to change. For some people are just bad habits: quit smoking, stop drinking alcohol…; for others, it all about acquires good habits: diet, practice more exercise; meanwhile, for others it is all about change for complete they way of life: get another job, pass more time with the family…
However, what everybody of us has in common with others in our New Years‘ resolutions is CHANGE. Change in something, or something, that we do not like, or we think it is not right, or it would be better if it would be in other way. Change: our life, our habits, our manners, our way to act, our destiny…
But other people expect other kind of changes and not only the personal ones. They expect change the actual economic system and the, so boring, financial crisis finish or they simply expect a better world in which everybody could have a plate full of food everyday and which the human being care more of our planet…
Whatever are our motives or resolutions to change it is true that at the beginning most of the changes could cause anxiety or fear and we could give up to our proposes. It could happen too, that patience won’t be our strength point in our character and that soon we leave all the resolutions and, at the end of this new year, we will not get nothing.
But not all the changes has an immediate result and for that we do not only need to change if not we need have patience, perseverance, determination and hope or faith too. We need to believe that despite all the adversities and obstacles in our path we will accomplish our goals.
Anyway, there are a lot of people whom misunderstands the New Year’s resolutions and yes, they expect changes, they want changes that help them in their own selfish interest. The problem is that most of these people have not noticed that for get a change we should start to change by ourselves. So, for example, if someone wants more friends or have more followers in their different social networks accounts they could expect that it would happen and they could believe in that. But, first of all, maybe they should change a bit and become more kind, or sociables or friendly… and maybe, with that, their resolutions will be accomplished. As Gandhi once said: “Be the change you wish to see in the world”. And that means that if you want that other things change start to change for yourself.
But it is a fact that any change could be very scary for the human being and that a lot of people expect that all the resolutions, wishes… be realized without any kind of work or sacrifice for their part. Maybe this happen because they believe so much and they firmly believe in miracles or in the luck. However, it is more common find the kind of aptitude in which people expect all without give nothing and all because they are lazy or they are just afraid of change.
Any change, for insignificant that it seems, has consequences in all kind of aspects of our life. We probably will loss some things and we would win another ones or, maybe, we could be completely wrong and make a huge mistake in our lives. But it is this the risk that has the life and without risk there is no advance. So, now, take a few minutes for yourself and ask you in which aspect do you want to improve (or your New Year’s resolutions) and what would you like to get. Later, think about what do you need to change in your life, in yourself, and, of course, be ready to sacrifice things. If you are not ready for the change you will know it. And everybody could feel scared, do not worry. However, do not discourage yourself or put excuses to do not accept that you do not really want to change or that you have not obtained what you expected. Everything it is no so easy for each of us and some people needs more time than others.
It is for this that I would like to share this beautiful song of Tracy Chapman because maybe my words do not help you. But I think that this song will inspire you something. I wish that this new year bring to all of you the strength and capacity to fullfil your wishes and dreams. Good luck.
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